Michelle Flowers
3 min readAug 8, 2021

๐˜ผ๐™›๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง 51 ๐™ฎ๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™จ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฉโ€ฆ..

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Drum

roll pleaseโ€ฆโ€ฆ

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I ๊œฐษชษดแด€สŸสŸส สœแด€แด แด‡ แด…แด‡แด„ษชแด…แด‡แด… แด›แด แด…แด แดแดส€แด‡ แด๊œฐ แดกสœแด€แด› แดแด€แด‹แด‡s แดแด‡ สœแด€แด˜แด˜ส

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I know, seems so like ummm..like a common sense kind of thingโ€ฆ

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But I would wager that the majority of folk do not live this wayโ€ฆ

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Because we live in a laอฃtอญeอคrอฌ kind of societyโ€ฆ.

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I will go on vacation, สทสฐแต‰โฟ I accumulate enough time

off work

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I will spend time with the grandkids, สทสฐแต‰โฟ I work enough to

retire comfortably

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I will check off my bucket list items, สทสฐแต‰โฟ I save up enough

money

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While you dream of future plans, I wonder how much time you spend marinating on the pastโ€ฆ.

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worrying about what happened last month

pissing and moaning about what happened two hours ago

blaming the moon, government, and everyone else for what happened in your childhood

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I wonder out of 100%, what __% of your time do you spend:

Beอคiอฅng Thอชaอฃnkfuองl foอฆrอฌ noอฆw

โ„ฌโ„ฏ๐’พ๐“ƒโ„Š ๐’ฏ๐’ฝ๐’ถ๐“ƒ๐“€๐’ป๐“Š๐“ ๐’ปโ„ด๐“‡ ๐“ƒโ„ด๐“Œ

Bแด‡ษชษดษข Tสœแด€ษดแด‹า“แดœสŸ า“แดส€ ษดแดแดก

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There is so much power in simply Beingโ€ฆ.Being Thankfulโ€ฆ.

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๐™„๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ฅ๐™ก๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐™ค๐™› ๐™‚๐™ง๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™™๐™š, ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™–๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™—๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™› ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™จ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™š, ๐™ฃ๐™ค ๐™ข๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ข๐™จ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™š.

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๐™„ ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ก๐™™ ๐™๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™ž๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค๐™  ๐™ค๐™›๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ง๐™ค๐™จ๐™š ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ก๐™ค๐™ง๐™š๐™™ ๐™œ๐™ก๐™–๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™จ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™—๐™š๐™œ๐™–๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™Ž๐™€๐™€ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™—๐™š๐™–๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™›๐™ช๐™ก ๐™ก๐™ž๐™›๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™ž๐™จ ๐™–๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™ง๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉ ๐™—๐™š๐™›๐™ค๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™š๐™ฎ๐™š๐™จโ€ฆ.

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Keep Your Head Up and Keep Moving Forward

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Michelle Flowers

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